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barbara ,your so right with this, LDRs you dont have physical sex,and i
believe that in the real world too many people do,and its all to quick,
and its the most mind bending drug in the universe, therefore when the
sex wears off as it does what are you left with????? this way you build
a true relationship,you learn about each other first,and everything that
is important on building a firm basis for a relationship ,so yes this is
the best way to start any relationship,and i think it has more chance
than the normal one which is influnced by sex, . maybe im so so right
,and thats why there is such a massive divorce rate. another thing i do
is we both have headsets and mikes and use yahoo chat,or msn which are
both free,and we can hear each other,and the emotions in our voice,and
that makes things so so so much better.

love and true caring terryd uk

Barbara Sumegi wrote:
>
> Hi,
> The closeness you say that LDR's miss out on is purely physical, you
> develop such a strong emotional connection with the person you are
> with. As you can't do anything besides share your every thought and
> feeling, that is where your real intimacy comes from. Developing it a
> form of a LDR really sets up a strong foundation of trust and respect
> for the other person, the kind of foundation that people who have a
> conventional relationship may never have. If you love, you love,
> regardless of whether your partner is physically in your life. Yes,
> what you have is a really close friend, but in life don't you always
> want you best friend with you, LDR's aren't always that way,
> eventually you end up together and I know that my man is the one I
> want to grow old with and I will be extremely happy if this really
> good friend is there through everything I go through in life. I am
> sorry to hear that your past LDR's have been so painful and emotional
> for you, but as you can see put this
> support group is here to give advice and listen to any problems that
> are encountered, there is real strength here and if ever anyone hits a
> bump there are quite a few people to help them through and weather the
> storm until they are strong again. The real thing you get out of LDR's
> if you are honest, open and loyal with your partner is a real, true
> loving relationship.. Simple as that. I am in my 1st LDR and I have
> been with Rick for just over 3 years now, he lives in America and I in
> Australia. The truth is it is really HARD but I am truely happy, I
> love him with ever fibre of my being and I feel so safe and secure in
> his love, we have worked on this relationship constantly, we are
> always in connact and never have fallen out with each other, we know
> what we have is real and we aren't going to throw it away over trivial
> things. So if ever you need to talk about anything or get back into a
> LDR there are always people here to support and encourage you.
> Remember that and st ay
> strong.
> Regards Barbara.
>
>

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